Vicky & Magnus,

I stumbled upon your site about two weeks before I lost my son, with no idea what was about to happen. Even when I thought I was expecting a healthy little one, your story truely touched my heart. I am so sorry for the loss of Thomas...it gives me comfort knowing my son Dylan is making friends with such a precious little boy.

Hugs & Prayers, Megan

I am very sorry for what you've been through. I feel no parent should have to go through this kind of pain. I recently loss my son Ethan on 5/27/04 and each day is so difficult. If you ever need to talk I am here for you.

Much love and hugs to a very very special little boy. Thomas it is so clear to even a stranger just how much you are loved. Rest tight little angel.

Love Seree

Mummy to 2 angels 12 and 4+3 gest
Aunty to angel Chloe died 2.7.04 aged 22.5 months

My deepest sympathies for the enormous losses you have endured. I pray for God to comfort you through your grieving times. I would like to add your angels to my memorial site... it's called "In Loving Memory.." ...let me know if you'd like me to add your angels. You have done a beautiful job with your tribute/memorial of your Angels.

Please visit my angel Christian ....Many blessings to you and your hubby : )

Hey,

I’m a 16 year old girl from Belgium. My English isn't very good, but I understand how hard it must be for you and your family! I lost my dad and it hurts, but for you and your family it must be terrible! I will help you, but I can't... I just want to say don't give up your hope!

Greetz and a big kiss Leen

My name is Mary, I have a daughter who has lost three babies, Thomas who lived for nine hours born at 25 weeks, Dilyn born at 19 weeks and Stuart born at 19 weeks, I know what you are feeling.

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Dixon,

My name is Linda & I just wanted to tell you how much your story touched my heart. I was 14 years old when I miscarried and today, over three years later it still hurts so much. Every day I still try to be the best mother I can by just thinking of my little baby boy... I also have a little shoebox stuffed with things that in some way remind me of him. That is the only thing I have left & I cherish it with all my heart.

I will light a candle for you & your little boy...

Linda, Devi's mum...

Your site is beautiful, your story touched my heart. I lost my baby Blake-Henry too and I take some comfort in knowing that they’re up there somewhere playing together and looking after eachother. I can only say the pain gets easier to deal with but will never and does never go away.

Always loved and never forgotten!

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Dixon,

Your site is lovely. My baby too was stillborn at 36 weeks on the 11th august 2003. It was devastating. I felt so empty my thoughts are with you! What a lovely tribute you have made for your son Thomas. My prayers are with you at this sad time.

A ray of sunshine came and went,
A beautiful treasure only lent,
In gods keeping quietly sleeps,
The little boy you loved but could not keep.

Love Lauren xx

I’m a Silent Grief reader and I wanted to express my deepest sympathy over the loss of Thomas. His website is beautiful. You’ve created such a touching and painstaking memorial, and it is so courageous of you to share your story, your grief, and your pain to the world.

I lost a baby named Stuart last year at 33 weeks due to a possible cord accident. Grief is a long and difficult journey, and I wish that it is an easy path, but it’s not. I remember the overwhelming emptiness, desolation and disbelief. For me, little by little, the pain has become more gentle, more soft. And even though the sadness never goes away, it has become less intense and less all-consuming.

I now have another baby named Nolan. Even though my new son is not a “cure” for my grief, I am so grateful everyday to have him. My life has become much brighter. I know that your child is due to be born at anytime now. I hope that your family---you, your husband, your baby-to-be, and Thomas shine together.

Love and Support, Heather

My heart goes out to you. I understand how you feel, I lost my little boy at 38 weeks and had to wait till the next day when I was induced and had a 21 hour labour. A sad experience but we will always have our little angels in our hearts, my Bailey and your Thomas.

Good luck in the future and stay strong

xxxx
Maureen
Australia

I am very sorry for your loss, I hope you the best in life and I hope you think about having a new one soon.

What a wonderful page in memory of your precious son, Thomas. The page bought tears to my eyes, and sadness that you have gone through such pain. Be strong, stay positive and I hope life brings you the happiness that you both deserve.

Take care.

I'm the Mommy of Preston Tyler, stillborn Oct. 12th '04. My love to your family as you continue to cope with the loss of precious baby Thomas

Thomas,

We just wanted to take a minute to visit your site and to say we've just received news that you're a big brother (but you already knew that 9 months ago)! We know that you will continue to watch over your sister Milly and share in the family memories from up above!!!! I hope that Ella gave you a big squeeze to congratulate you on your little sis! We continue to think of you and your family often and you're all in our prayers!

Lots of Love!

I am sorry for your loss. I to have lost a daughter Alexa Morgan White 7/21/02. I am trying to keep her memory alive also. Your website is a very nice dedication to your little angel.

God Bless you.

This is a beautiful tribute to your son Thomas. I found your website through Mommy of Memphis. My son Joseph was killed at the hands of his father on May 29, 2004. He was only 19 1/2 months old and a victim of Shaken Baby Syndrome. I really love seeing other peoples websites and hope to build my own one day.

I came across your website by accident. My mum died two days ago and I have been unable to cry. Your tributes and memories of baby Thomas moved me to tears.

Bless you and your family.
with love - Rosie -
England

What a beautiful and thoughtful website;) You are very creative! Not sure if I just skimmed over it but here is a great song to add to the Memorials:

Glory Baby by Watermark:

Glory Baby, You slipped away
As fast as we could say
baby, baby
You were growing,
what happened Dear,
You disappeared on us
baby, baby
Heaven will hold you before we do
Heaven will keep you safe
Until we're home with you
Until we're home with you

CHORUS
We miss you everyday,
Miss you in every way
But we know there's a day
When we will hold you,
We will hold you
And you'll kiss our tears away,
When we're home to stay

We can't wait for the day when we will see you,
We will see you
But baby let sweet Jesus hold you,
Until mom and dad can hold you

You'll just have heaven before we do
You'll just have heaven before we do
Sweet little baby,
It’s hard to understand it
Cause we are hurting, we are hurting
But there is healing,
And we know we're stronger people
Through the growing, and in knowing
All things work together for our good
And God works his purposes
Just like he said he would,
Just like he said he would

CHORUS BRIDGE

I can't imagine
Heaven's lullabies
And what the must sound like
But I will rest in knowing
Heaven is your home
And it's all you'll ever know,
All you'll ever know

I send you my sincere sympathy. I’m 21 and we lost a baby at 10 weeks on 04/09/04, I didn’t know the sex of the baby, the size or anything, my little angel is in heaven now, we named her baby Maddie. I think your website is beautiful and all the tiny pictures are really nice.

I just want to say I’m so sorry of your loss and other parents loss of their angels, I think the website is a fantastic idea and wish you the best.

This is a wonderful website! God bless you for all that you do. May you be comforted in knowing your precious Thomas is with the angels now.

Hello I’m Stephanie;

I’m from Germany. I had seen this site on the Internet. I know that a "sorry" don’t bring your baby on this earth, but I’m so sorry about that.

I wish you luck and happiness. (I hope the grammatik is right)

My niece's baby boy was stillborn at 32wks...looking for sites that might help her out.

Sorry about your loss ... I’ve had 3 miscarriages myself =(

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Thomas. You have created a wonderful website to honour him and I know he is very proud of his Mummy and Daddy. I came to know of Thomas's page through Fiona from Joshua's boxes, as I hope to help having recently lost my daughter Charlotte (stillborn at 39 weeks Sept. 28, 2004 to placental abruption). Thank you for sharing your little one's life with me.

MISSing your little angel with you, Heather

We know how hard it is to lose a baby and our thoughts are with you and all other parents who know the pain of losing a child.

My name is Jane Smith and I just found your website by chance. It's wonderful - I am very happy for you at the arrival of a baby sister for Thomas. I truly admire you for your strength. As any parent knows a child is the most beautiful and precious gift, it's also overwhelming the awareness we have at how fragile life is and how every moment we spend with our children, friends, family is very precious. Thank you for creating this site - I think you are marvellous for doing this....I have a son who is 19 months old now and he too loves "Guess How Much I Love You..." It's a super book isn't it? I must go now - I can't concentrate on my work regarding this beautiful site - I shall be visiting again...

love and best wishes, Jane Smith.

I lost my baby, Jesse, on 8-27-04. I miss him very much. His due date would have been 12/30/04. I know the same pain and agony it is to only get to see your baby for only a short time.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Dear Thomas,

What a long time it has been since I first heard about you. Your life has touched so many this year, and without you I would not have met your mummy or had her friendship in my life. I hope that you have a happy birthday and know how very much that you are loved.

Fiona

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Thomas, Happy Birthday to you.

You and your family are in our thoughts on your first Birthday!

Happy Birthday / Angel Day to your little Thomas. Your website memorial to him is beautiful. Our son, whose name was also Thomas, was stillborn on 17th March 2004, 10 days past his due date. We truly understand your loss, your grief, your anguish and your pain.

We were so pleased to read about the birth of your daughter. She can never replace Thomas, but we know she brings new joy and hope to your lives. Congratulations!

Rose & Ben Mum & Dad to:
Caitlin - 2 1/2 ( born 18/7/02 )
Thomas - bornstill 17/3/04

I think about the anniversary of Thomas today and I cannot imagine how you must be feeling, you are in my daily prayers I send you hugs and kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi,

I was touched to read your story about your little boy, Thomas. On December 20th, 2004, I delivered my baby girl, Sydney, at 41 weeks. She was a stillbirth and at this time we have no reasons for her death. She was perfect and beautiful in every way.

It gives me hope that you have survived both a miscarriage and a stillbirth and have gone on to have a healthy baby girl. I hope the same for myself one day soon. Although I could never wish what I have been through on anyone else, it is comforting that I am not alone and also that life will go on.

Your website for your baby Thomas is truly amazing. The poems are so beautiful, like none I have ever read. Thankyou so much for sharing your thoughts.

This is the second time I have visited your site. The first was on 7th Dec; the day after we buried our precious much wanted daughter - Amalie Isabella Geddes Stewart - who was still born on 29th Nov. Today is her due date and I wanted to share the day with someone who had had a similar experience.

We are still waiting for the outcome of all the tests, but thankfully we have a 14 month old son who is a huge comfort. Like you I feel a constant need to reassure Amalie that she will never be forgotten, was wanted and loved and her death has left us completely broken. But nothing can take away the guilt I feel - why did I not know she was dying, why did I not prevent it?

Thank you for having the courage and strength to put your feelings on the web.

Yours, with sadness and aching
Rhonda Stewart Urquhart
Elgin Moray.

I found your site very comforting and uplifting, I am unable to have children so my pain is different. I have a daughter Jemma who I adopted when she was 15 months old, who is now nearly 14, so she helps. Hope your pain eases some.

Sandra McKenna
Glasgow Scotland

Dear Vicky and Magnus

This site is fantastic. So much hard work has gone in to it. I’m so sorry for the loss of Thomas. He will always be with you and will always be in your heart. Congrats on the birth of your daughter.

I had just had my second m/c was on what would have been the due date of Bump which makes things even harder.

Thoughts are with you
Take care
Hayz

Your website is wonderful. I too lost my precious baby boy. The poetry and art were very comforting.

I am so sorry for your loss. Six weeks ago on December 8th 2004, I lost my baby at 39 weeks, one week before my due date. I too know what you are going through, and it's nice to know that I am not the only one. I feel alone sometimes, mostly because I want to be.

I live in a small town, and feel like people are staring at me in disbelief...I am lucky because people have been so supportive, yet wish that I could hold my Nicholas again. My sister just had her fifth baby on Thursday, she was due a month after me...so that is tough, but I am able to go on. I have to for him...if you would like to chat and give me some advice, please do.

Thanks

Goodnight Thomas

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thank you for this website, its made me hug Madison a little closer to me.

Big kisses to your daughter x

I have just had a look through your site, and think you are truly amazing for doing this. I am quite lost for words and cannot imagine what you have went through.

My thoughts, prayers and love are with you and your family, as I know this is something you will never get over, and only learn to cope with better as time goes on.

Thomas was lucky to have you both for parents who will always love and treasure him.

I wish you all lots of love, luck and happiness as a family for the future.

Best wishes, Eleonar

I don't know what to say really, other than Thankyou so much for having the courage to share your story......it brough tears to my eyes. I lost my little girl last month and have since felt so alone. No one in my family understands and tell me I should move on but I will never forget my little 'Alana Faith' and feel very hurt by their lack of support.

Your website has helped me in ways you will never know.......so for that I thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I no longer feel so alone.

Forever remembering My beautiful Alana
stillborn 2nd December 2004..4:20pm
6lbs 4ozs

Love and best wishes

Shirli

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Dixon,

Having just found your site, I was moved by the beautiful tribute you have paid your little son Thomas. I'm sure that up there in Heaven, he knows he is blessed to have such a wonderful Mummy and Daddy.

May your lives one-day be filled with joy again. x

Hello,

I am so very sorry for the loss of your son Thomas. It sounds like he is loved very much and will always be with you.

This site that you have created to honour your son's memory is wonderful and I thank you for doing so. For sharing your story and trying to help other who have lost their child.

You will always have a Angel in the sky.

Pattsy Ontario,Canada

This is such a beautiful and loving tribute to your precious baby Thomas. I can tell that he is loved very much, I and know you will miss him always.

Thank you so much for sharing his story and all these beautiful pages you have created in his memory.

If you have time, please read my son's story at http://www.geocities.com/legobeaver/index.html

What a beautiful moving tribute you have made for your son, it moved me to tears. I lost a baby at 13 weeks, nearly 10 years ago now when I was 18, but last year I had a gorgeous little girl, but baby Alice will always be in my heart.

I wish you all the sucess in the world both of you, and I will send your website onto people I know who have been in a similar situation, so they can see what you have devised.

Take care.

Lots of Love Zoe and Morgan x