I love this website Vicky. As you know, I lost what would have been our second baby at the weekend. I was only 3 months pregnant but it has devastated me deeply and I know I can talk to you about this, as you've been through it more than you should have had to.

Thanks for letting me put up this message. I just feel very flat (and still in denial). I want to wear my new maternity jeans and continue to feel blooming. I think the only thing I can do is to concentrate on getting better and then try again. This baby wasn't planned but it's made us realise how much we want another now.

Much love Gem xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

My thoughts are with you. I lost my little baby boy 6 weeks and 4 days ago. He was 8 weeks old. I miss him terribly, just like I know you do your baby boy Thomas.

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Thank you for creating this site. It caught my eye, because I also have a son named Thomas. It made me cry to think of another situation so close to mine.

Our baby Thomas was born still on December 12, 2005. We miss him deeply. Your words echo the thoughts in my mind.

The poems and songs that you have collected are comforting.

Thank you, Amy George

I am so sorry for your loss. It is so obvious how much Thomas is loved and missed. Thank you for sharing.

Love Sandie

Thank you, for my tears and my smile. Ask your angel to hug mine.

Bright Blessings x

What a beautiful things to do. My eyes are filled with tears. All my thoughts go out to you and your family.

Take Care

Katie

***may all the angels be looking after you Thomas***

I had a look on your website because I have seen your posts on the Mother & Baby website, I have to say its beautiful & Thomas has been done proud by you & your husband.

Sounds extremely corny but my nan used to tell me that we are all on loan to each other to touch lives in our own special way & that sometimes we are called upon to leave early, but that the love you share with a departed loved one will reunite you one day.

Congratulations on the birth of Milly,
I'm sure her big brother is watching over her xx

A very sad but beautifully written story.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both x

This site is really beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss.

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This is a lovely site Vicky. I'm so sorry for your loss, you are so brave to have made this site. I would never have had the heart to talk about a loss like you have.

Love

Amanda Wright xxxxxx

Absolutely heartbreaking story. I admire u and you family for the things u have done to keep Thomas` memory alive.

xxx
nikki1460

Dear Vicky and Magnus,

I am so sorry for your losses, life can be so cruel. I have just lost my 5 month old son in December and the pain is unbearable, I know that all our babies are playing in heavens gardens until the day we can once again be together with them.

xxx big kisses to our angels xxx

In loving memory of your baby... I too lost my son Anthony on June 2nd 2005. Due to placenta abruption.

We love and miss all of them

May you always play safely in gods garden.xxx

I lost my son almost a year ago at 40 wks gestation. Found your web site for Thomas beautiful.

Hi, just a father who is missing his son Ciaran at this time of year.

Born asleep 01.05.05

Dear Mr and Mrs Dixon,

I myself suffered a stillbirth at 32 weeks and my husband and I were distraught to say the least, that happened 4 years ago on 29th dec 2001. Things are still difficult and we miss her dearly, we named her Erin. But she'll alawys be with us.

Never forget your precious little bundle, he will live on in your hearts forever and hold every memory dear. The dark days will soon pass, wish you both well and hope you once again find happiness.

This is a beatiful and very emotional letter. We never know what the future will hold - we must cherish the present no matter how much we look forward to the future.

Love, Maria

What a wonderful website for baby Thomas who left to soon just as my son Chris did (7 hrs),

In our hearts forever all our angel babies x x

Dear Vicky and Magnus,

I stumbled upon your website whilst browsing "Joshuas Boxes". I am sorry to learn that you lost your precious Thomas. I too lost my son Joshua on 11th March this year. He was born at 25 weeks 4 days, weighing 1lb 7oz he was doing well but sadly an infection got the better of him and he passed away in my arms aged 53 days.

At times I am filled with self pity but after reading your story I realise how lucky I was to have had the time to get to know my son and more importantly the opportunity to say goodbye to him.

Reading other peoples stories has helped me with my grief and to help me feel less alone. It is only seven weeks since Joshua passed away but the sun is slowly starting to shine through the clouds again. I visit the cemetry regularly and get comfort that all the babies and children are together. I like to think of them all as beautiful angels and brightly shining stars.

We are in the process of setting up Joshuas own website which will eventually be linked to "Joshuas Boxes". Writing things for the website has helped. I hope your pain eases and thank you once again for sharing your story.

Lots of love Sarah Harvey

Mummy to "baby" lost in miscarriage June 2005 and
Joshua lost to heaven 11th March 2006

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. I hope this site brings you strength as it has done others...

Your site is beautiful and I thank you for having the strengh to create it - I lost Jazmine on 27.03.06 aged 5 months. My beautiful Jazzie Bubbles is with the angels.

I would like to send my love and sympathy to all who have lost their little ones. One day at a time - that's all we can do.

With Love Liz (Mummy) Alan (Daddy)
and big sister Ella Rose (aged 3) xxxxxxxxxx

Hi, No one should ever have to go through the pain of losing a child. Your story has touched my heart. I can't begin to understand the pain and heartache you have gone through. My thoughts are with you and your partner. Floaty kisses to angel baby Thomas.

Toni xx

Hi hun, your site to your son baby Thomas is a dream. I bet he is proud of you both. He is so gorgeous as if he is to you he will be to others. Always watch over your mummy and daddy little guy and I hope your being good and playing with the other baby angels.

Lots of love from me.

Our thoughts are with you all xx

Saw your website through Joshuas Boxes.

We lost our son, Cameron, almost exactly 2 years after you sadly lost Thomas. He had HLHS and had survived 3 open heart surgeries and other procedures and seemed to be doing well. He was 18 months & died suddenly on New Years Eve 2005. We miss him so much.

Your website is a lovely memorial.

Take care Paula

What a wonderfull thing you have given to other Mommies who lost their babies. My best friend lost her second son and it always seems like such a taboo subject around other poeple, but talking about it was the only thing that got us through the rough times.

Thank you for sharing your sorrows with us. Your painting really touched my heart. It's as if each brush stroke was a thought or feeling and to look at it makes me overwhelmed with emotions. It is beautiful.

Blessings to you and your family.

May the peace of God and the knowledge that your angel lives on be with you always.

That story touched me more than I could imagine. Thomas will always be in my thoughts.

Hi, as you know by now we are both in the same boat so we know what each has gone through. This site is beautiful and I just cannot stay away. You have provided a countless number of poems which have sometimes had me sobbing and reaching for the tissues while at the same time, have been tremendously comforting. Some I've seen before but it seems to be the ones I haven't read that have had me sobbing.

Little Milly is a stunning little girl and we are both so lucky to have gone on and had another baby, whilst never replacing, forgetting and loving the child we have lost before. We must cherish each and every single day we have with our children as we know all too well, life is certainly far too short.

This site is a credit to you and one which will never leave my 'favourites'. I will come back and talk to you very soon.

Katrina xx

Hi Hun It's Chelle, from Vertellech. I have read your page and I honestly don't know what to say. As a mum to a toddler myself, I can not even begin to imagine the heartache you have been through.

Big hugs to you and your family and you must be very proud of Milly. I hope she brings you joy and happiness in every sense of the word

x x x x x

God Bless you & your children.

Thank you for such a beautiful webpage - what a wonderful tribute.

I stumbled across your website. Your website is a beautiful tribute to Thomas who is obviously very much loved and missed.

I lost my son Jake in July 2005 just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you.

What a lovely lovely site. I am so sorry for the loss of your Thomas - I know how much it hurts, my Dylan was stillborn at 38 weeks on 14th March 2006.

Websites like this are such a lovely way of keeping our memories alive - you have spurred me on to creating one for Dylan xxx

Hello, It is a beautiful tribute site to your son. You can feel your love for him in the words you have written. I hope all is well with your family (as well as it can be) and that Thomas's sister brings you the joy you so deserve.

Love to you and your family xxx

15/06/06 after losing my baby at 18 weeks gestation on 09/06/06 I just wish to say a huge thank you to you some of the poems and verses fit exactly how i'm feeling at the minute, I've printed the ones I like best to show family and friends so hopefully they will understand better how i'm feeling. Once again.

Thank you so much for this wonderful site xxx

This is a wonderful gesture to remember your angel. I, too, have a angel who is heaven with Thomas. Her name is Sarah Allison who became an angel on April 27, 2006. I sure hope they have already met one another.

Love is endless. Even when life is not. You and your patner are brave people and times like this will only make you stronger.

I'm 9 years old. I've experienced the same thing - My cousin Aiden died after he was born he didn't live a day. I feel so sorry for you. My heart is for you & your family.

My Nana had a stillborn baby before she had my mum. We visit it in the cemetry.

I came to see a poem called little snowdrop. But there are so many other lovely words here I shall have to return when I have more time. My son, named Thomas was 2 on May 25th and is the light of my life, I know each day how lucky I am to have such a gift.

My heart goes out to anyone who loses a baby, I have had an ectopic at 5 1/2 weeks, early but still time to know you are pregnant and look forward to that baby. I named my baby Hope which is what she gave me for the future, having discovered problems whilst scanning for her. She was not meant for this earth and only came to me to get her wings, I know she watches over me and Thomas always.

I hope life brings you happiness, and that you can feel baby Thomas close to you. xxx

I have just found this site and want to say it is beautiful. I lost my son Edward at 22wks gestation on 8th Jan 2005, he had hypoplastic left heart syndrome. I have since been blessed with a daughter, Molly (4th nov 05).

Hugs to you and your family xx

I found your site through Joshuas site. We lost our precious Cameron on New Years eve 2005 to HLHS. He was 18 months old.

Your website is lovely, a great tribute to Thomas. We have set up a site for Cameron, feel free to have a look and see some pics of our Little Angel.

Take care

Paula x
www.mybrothersheart.co.uk

Hello, I am so sorry for the loss of you little one. Your website is truly beautiful and I know that your baby Thomas would be very honoured. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Please visit my grandson Elliot's website, he passed away on the 5.2.2006

God Bless

Luv Kim
Tasmania, Australia
http://www.elliotangel.bravehost.com

Words seem inadequate to express what is in my heart when faced with the overwhelming sadness at the loss of a child. I stumbled upon your site while looking for inspiration for words of comfort for the parents of my beautiful grandaughter who died almost full term on the 6 July 2006, her funeral service is tomorrow.

I will return to your site at a later date. Thank you so much. I don't have the words at the moment.

God bless you.

So sorry to hear of your loss. I went into early labour with my twins Oliver and Dylan at 20 weeks and I miss them dearly. So glad you now have a sister for baby Thomas.

We have recently had the heartbreak of losing our long awaited grandson - in the twenty first/second week of our daughter-in-law's pregnancy. The poignant poems and words have been such a comfort - thank you and bless you! 

Four years for him we waited. Four years we prayed for a pregnancy. One hour of joy. I even fed my baby boy. But then God took him back. Four years of suffering repayed by an hour of joy. Five weeks ago we held him. We loved him. We kissed him. We lost him...

I am so sorry for your losses .. but I am so happy to see you got a beautiful wee girl in the end .. I lost my daughter three weeks ago on the 14th August 2006 at 20 weeks due to premature labour and the midwife not believing the pain I was in ... 

TRUDY

What a wonderful & beautiful site in honour of your precious boy.

My friend miscarried her darling baby yesterday at 7 weeks. I have been searching for a site that I could reccommend in the hope that it could bring her & her husband some comfort at this devasting time and I've found it!

As a mother myself I found the poems heartbreaking to read and I think you are truly remarkable in creating such a beautiful tribute to Thomas, the little boy who touched your heart and stays by your side.

Love Trudy x 

I have a grandson named Teina and he will be two in Nov 2006. The odd thing is he often says Thoma'th Dix'thon'. It took me by surprise that he said it so often at such a young age, so I decided to look up the name on the internet to see what I'd come up with and was drawn to your site.

Kymberley winsor

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I lost Caitlyn at 16 weeks of pregnancy due to anecephaly in 2002 and Dylan in 2006 due to severe type 2 osteogenisis imperfecta.

The pain never goes and I can't wait to get past 16 weeks of pregnancy! 

Tara

Hi, I have just spent ages looking through your site for baby Thomas. He must be so proud of you. It is a perfect site for him. I am sat here with tears streaming down my face as the site has touched me so much,

Huge hugs and thoughts for you and your family and floaty angel kisses for Thomas and your other little angels xxx 

I liked your site!

What a lovely and beautiful tribute to Thomas you have made. Your son must be so proud of you.

I lost a baby also, she was three days old when she went with the angels. I only wish that I could create such a loving and personal tribute for my daughter as you have your son.

Loving prayers and best wishes, Shona. 

Your website is so beautiful. What a wonderful way to honor your son Thomas.

My son, Anderson, was stillborn at 35 weeks on October 7, 2006. It is comforting to know I am not alone.

Hello,

after reading your story I felt that I wanted to leave a message. I'm a mother of two children and although I have not lost a child in the same way you have I have lost one through my own choice (abortion) which to this day I still regret deeply, however I have lost a sibling and although the pain is nowhere near to yours I'm still having trouble coming to terms with her death at 12 days old - that was 27 years ago how I miss her deeply, no one will ever know. So I'm sorry to have left this message, but I felt it was somewhere that I could think out loud. I really am sorry for intruding on such a precious story.

Best wishes Julie x

My baby robbie was born asleep 19.10.2006 at 29 weeks weighing 1 pound 11 ounces due 31.12.2006 This Christmas is going to be very hard knowing what I was expecting.

He had a massive brain haemorrhage, and in a coma for 4 weeks, I kept telling the midwifes that he had not moved for 4 weeks but they didnt listen. I ended up with a blood clot on my lung and still have it, and I can't try again for 6 months due to medication for clot. All I keep thinking is why me? and what did I do to deserve this?

Karen xxxxxx
p.s. I love and miss you Robbie.